It is said that you are what your friends are. One can predict your personality if they know your 5 friends or people with whom you are around most of the time.
If you have problems in your life, try finding out somebody in your group is also facing similar problems.
Be it personal, marriage, business, financial, or anything. You will find your network or the people you are close to also have similar problems like you.
So what does that conclude?
So what does that mean?
You are what your surrounding is.
So be around successful
Be around the great
Be around masters
Be around the best
Don’t choose to be around average
because they won’t push you
they won’t challenge you
they won’t inspire you
to work hard
to be strong
and to not have complains
and to not struggle
Make new friends and get out of the comfort zone.
You are used to your old friends because
You don’t want to make new
and why you don’t want to make new
Coz you will have to meet new people
Know new people
and get out of your comfort zone
Trust them and make new friends.
Get into a new neighborhood
Get to a new city
Into a new society or wherever
You can get the new you.
You can find the new you, the hidden you.
Who better than me can understand this.
I was lazy and I was never willing to get out
Go out and meet new people.
Make new friends but when I understood
that my growth and my success
are dependants on this one habit of mine.
This one thing is stopping me from being what I want to be?
I started moving out. I still struggle,
I still fight with myself
I still try to just know a few people who I have known for the last 10-15 years
But I get myself out, out of the comfort zone.
So how are you going to do that?
Talk to your neighbor
Make a new friend in the lift today
in the Taxi, in your office
at a coffee shop
it could be anywhere and you will find a lot of people like you
I heard somebody saying if your friends haven’t changed for the last 5 years or 10 years, you haven’t grown. If you don’t have new and better friends means you are right where you were.